Most of the answers have already told you the right thing to do, but no you are not looking for that, you already know the right thing, what you are looking for is courage to do it.
A push. And I am going to give you that. You mention that there's a guy who loves you, but you have realized you don't love him. True story, I had been that guy for 3 years. She was such a nice girl that dragged it on for 3 years. It used to hurt me when I used to ask her that whats wrong with her whenever I felt that she doesn't love me and she never had an answer. I could see her suffer too.
But I was so stupid that. But I was so stupid that I thought it might work out, so not caring about my self respect, I dragged on with her. I felt pain and the reason I couldn't leave her was I couldn't imagine what I'd do without her and wanted to hide myself from the embarassment of her dumping me. Today after almost 5 years of our break up, I think what she did was the right thing, I think she should have done this earlier, so that I could have moved on earlier and we both would have suffered less and not taken 3 years, I wish she would have explained me her situation better, I wish she had given me some more closure.
So you know what to do now, since you have heard it from someone who has been on the receiving end. If he really loves you he will walk away and after some years also realize that it was the right thing to do. Like I did. Live with the person who values you.. If you don't love him, step back and if you love him stay with him.
Nobody wants to be in a false relationship. You are actually trolling that guy and in the end, you'll break up, so I would suggest you break up this moment, and search for someone you're in love with not with the one who loves you and doesn't get loved back, relationships are perfect when both side loves equally.
The situation where you receive more love than give it back is highly unfair on your significant other, especially if he has no clue on how you really feel about him. He may be blissfully unaware that you love him far less than he loves you and the day the truth dawns on him will be enough to shatter an innocent man whose only fault was to love someone without demanding anything from her. There are different types of people in the world and their way of love is also different. I would say. Just be with him and enjoy every thing he does for you andthink why you are not able to love him..
What is that holding you back.. And think does that really matters when compared to the love he has for you.. I'm sure you will get an answer and you will start liking him. Do what makes you happy. If its not then try at least try to love or at least fall in love. I bet right now you wanna let him go but when you or if you lose him your gonna want him as much as he did want you. Its more of a "compromise" thing Atleast stay true to yourself and go out of your room,away from the flashing screen of your lappy or smartphone The world in front of you has all the answers And act accordingly And if it still doesnt work,try a "jadoo ki jhappi" Sign In.
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