Now for the family part We are different people in one big way, I am very extroverted and say whatever's on my mind and he's introverted and everything is very thought out and he likes alone time. And I never found that "good Mormon girl". It is much easier for the Holy Ghost to influence good people. If you do attend parties like that, expect her to drink 7-Up and volunteer as the designated driver, and to be completely repulsed if you drink too much. So it will just be for this life that it may be hard to have a non-believing spouse. And most of those end up with both people losing their faith or a divorce. My daughter thinks it's funny that she's known her SO 4 years - not ready for marriage. There are a lot of single people in the world. Am I a homewrecker. Of course she won't want to watch something that in her mind attacks her religion.
Full respect and care. And as an outsider it will be obvious to you what's going on, but here's an awesome breakdown from a couple that flipped from "we go to church every week - we will write a Mormon blog" to resigning over the new policy banning children of gays all over the NY Times this month and something that is upsetting many staunch church members a few days ago. This is how I felt when I married my exmo husband. LDS theology heavily promotes the idea that marriage and family are an important source of happiness in this life, not just the next. This girl is also a real person, not a caricature of a cult member, and even if the ultimate result is a breakup, she deserves to be treated with compassion and respect. Is this a sign of my own weakness. You will be able to best gauge where her beliefs stand in regards to the church if you listen to how she describes her mission. The views expressed herein do not necessarily represent the position of the Church. This is the rule rather than the exception. I often feel it's harder than being a single mom because the false hope is just torture.
But I do believe in modern prophets and that God gives no commandment that is not for our own happiness. Good luck to you. Does your new girlfriend have eight brothers and sisters. A lot of shared hobbies, interests, life goals. Am I that woman. Bet as Joanna has said there are some things you should think carefully about в and this needs to be done with your head, not your heart. Getting things done, solve every problems, started my day with long a to-do list daily. This isn't encouraging to me, it's sad. But that parent-child relationship was bound to change anyways as you become an adult. So I feel a little frightened after reading this blog.
If you think your girlfriend's resistance to being exposed to anything critical of Mormonism sounds cult-like, you are right. It's easy to be blind to deal-breaking faults when you are young and in love. I'd suggest taking issue with things that specifically bug you the most.